From the outside, our love story may look slow. We wrote to each other for five months before meeting in person. We didn't move in together for 3-1/2 years. We got engaged after five. And now, we're living in and savoring the bliss of being engaged before we decide on a wedding date. Every step has felt perfectly right for us—not because we were following a plan, but because we weren't.

"The more grateful you are, the more you have to be grateful for."

"I did the work, and then he showed up." We hear this phrase constantly, spoken like a magic incantation that conjures love from thin air. But what does that actually mean? Too often, people use "the work" as a vague catchphrase—a spiritual bypass that sounds profound but lacks substance. The truth is far more nuanced, and infinitely more powerful. Real inner work isn't about quick fixes or checking boxes on a self-improvement list. It isn't about dating more people, trying h

Have you ever wondered why you keep attracting the same type of person, even when you swear you want something different? The answer might surprise you: love always meets us exactly where we are. The version of you who is exhausted, tolerating toxic energy, and forgetting your own worth will always attract relationships that reflect that story back. The version of you who is vibrant, kind, and aligned?

If you're single and over 50, chances are you've dipped your toe into online dating — and maybe felt like pulling it right back out again. The endless swiping, the "hey" messages, the overly sexualized photos, the people rushing to meet before you've even exchanged more than three words…it can feel exhausting. But here's the thing: online dating isn't a separate universe with different rules. The same discernment and awareness you'd use if you met someone organically is ex

We work with singles, many of which are over 50, who have come to a beautiful realization, an awareness that maybe, just maybe, there is something more to the journey to true love that they don’t yet know, but are finally ready to discover. 

At some point, I realized: "I keep attracting people who are lacking presence, take me for granted, or who are inconsistent with me."

If you've told yourself love just isn't in the cards for you, even though something deep inside still whispers but what if…

When we've lived through heartbreak, inconsistency, betrayal—or just too many almosts—it makes sense that we'd start bracing ourselves. Even when something feels different… more grounded, more real… our nervous systems may still go on high alert.

Build your ideal relationship on something real—mutual respect, soul-level recognition, and the safety of being fully known. Let chemistry be the spark, not the structure. Let excitement be the color, not the canvas.

We hear this often from the people who reach out to us—sometimes directly, sometimes between the lines of what they’re saying: “I really do want love… but I’m scared I’m not enough.” Sometimes that fear stems from past heartbreak. Sometimes it’s rooted in a body that’s changed—through illness, aging, or simply the natural wear of life. Other times it’s that deeper vulnerability: “What if I open my heart again and it all falls apart?”

Have you ever watched two people together and felt that flutter of wonder—how they just fit? How they seem to have found something that feels both magical and completely natural? I want to share something with you that might change how you think about love forever: that same kind of beautiful connection is absolutely possible for you too, regardless of what the past has told you.

Over and over again, I found myself circling back to this quiet, powerful force — the very thing that makes our relationship what it is. The thing that made all the difference when I was calling in the love I have now. And the thing that was missing when love didn't feel safe, seen, or possible.

If you're new here, welcome! We're Kim and Roger, and we help people over 50 manifest meaningful relationships. But before we became Manifestationship® coaches, we were two people doing our own deep inner work to find love. This is our story—and how it became the foundation for everything we teach.

How Your Energetic Patterns Might Be Attracting the Same Relationship Storyline Over and Over

Have you ever felt your heart pulling you toward someone while your gut whispered "caution"? What if finding extraordinary love isn't just about following your heart—but about aligning all three centers of your wisdom?

What if the single biggest obstacle to finding lasting love isn't your dating profile or conversation skills, but something far more fundamental: your energy? The state of your personal energy field may be the invisible force determining whether you attract relationships that drain you or partnerships that help you thrive.

Have you ever wondered why some people seem to effortlessly attract love into their lives while others struggle for years, if ever finding it at all? The answer might surprise you. The key difference isn't luck, appearance, or even circumstance—it's belief.

Our friendships can reveal a lot about how we show up in love, often mirroring the very patterns that influence our romantic relationships.

People often assume that finding love later in life must mean settling, getting lucky, or lowering your standards. in fact, it doesn't.