We Don't Help You Find 'Someone' - We Help You Find Real Love

Last weekend, I (Kim) was at a bridal shower, sitting at a table of women, mostly over 50. A couple were single, others were married, and one even had a young 78-year-old mom who was single. At one point the hostess Debbie cheerfully told everyone:

"If you're single, you need to talk to Kim. She can help you — and she can help your single moms too!"

It was very kind of her to try and promote our work, but it was also clear: Debbie really had no idea what Roger and I actually do. And to be fair, why would she? She's been happily married for 30 years. To her, the idea of "helping single people" just meant helping them not be single anymore.

That's the assumption that many people make. But what we do is something entirely different — and far more transformative.

What People Assume We Do

They picture us as matchmakers waving magic wands, or dating coaches with a bag of tricks to help you "catch" someone. They imagine we're in the business of ending singleness, as if being partnered is inherently better than being alone.

That's not us at all.

What We Actually Do

We work with singles, many of which are over 50, who have come to a beautiful realization, an awareness that maybe, just maybe, there is something more to the journey to true love that they don’t yet know, but are finally ready to discover. 

Picture Maria, recently divorced after 25 years, sitting in her quiet kitchen one morning. She's not crying about being alone — she's actually relieved. For the first time she's finding herself asking: "What would love look like if I didn't have to shrink myself to fit into it?" This version of Maria is now ready for what we teach; ready to explore what may have never been, and what’s actually possible for her.

Or, think about David, a widower who spent two years grieving not just his wife's death, but the dreams they'd shared. One day, he looks in the mirror and realizes he's not the same man he was in his thirties when he first fell in love. He has depth now, wisdom, stories to tell. He wonders: "What kind of love would honor who I've become?" That's our person.

We help people recognize and release the patterns that have shaped their past relationships. We guide them in discovering who they are and what their heart truly longs for — not what they think they should want, not what worked for their parents, but what would make their soul sing at their particular stage of life. 

This isn't about playing games or following dating rules. It's about becoming so clear about who you are, what you deserve, and what you are absolutely worthy of, that you naturally magnetize someone who sees your worth and cherishes it completely, in a way that happens like magic. 

The People We Help

The recently divorced who know they don't want to repeat old patterns but aren't sure how to do things differently. We not only help them to understand where they came from, but guide them in creating something new and beautiful and different this time. A genuine, lasting love. 

The widowed who wonder if extraordinary love can happen twice. We help them honor their capacity for love while opening  them up to entirely new possibilities, without limitations.

People who've been single, because settling has never felt right, but who are now ready to learn how to be truly discerning instead of just waiting or hoping, or simply taking whatever comes their way.

The serial daters who are exhausted by surface-level connections. We help them stop auditioning for love and start attracting it instead, with guided awareness, clear intention and discernment.

Anyone who looks at their relationship history and thinks: "There has to be a different way to do this."

Why Our Approach is Different

We don't hand out dating tips or teach you to play hard to get, or other games. We don't tell you to just put yourself out there more or try harder or which dating app will work best for you. In fact, none of these things are important, and are the wrong approach in attracting genuine love. 

Instead, we help you become the person who naturally attracts aligned love. Think of it like tuning a radio — when you're on the right frequency, the signal comes in clear and strong. When your inner world matches the love you're seeking, that love finds you with an ease that feels almost effortless, and a bit miraculous as well. 

Here's what this transformation looks like:

Sarah came to us believing she was "too much" — too successful, too opinionated, too independent. She kept attracting men who were intimidated by her strength. Through our work together, she shifted from seeing her power as a liability to recognizing it as magnetic. Now she's with someone who doesn't just tolerate her brilliance — he's inspired by it daily and cherishes her for it. 

Robert was stuck in the story that "all the good women are taken." Every first date seemed to prove his theory right. But when we helped him start believing that wonderful women were everywhere, just waiting for someone who could truly see them, his whole dating experience transformed. He's now engaged to a woman who had been right in his social circle for years — he just hadn't been on the right frequency to notice her.

This is the magic of the kind of transformation we teach; when you change what you believe is possible, reality shifts to match.

If You're Ready for This Journey

Maybe you're reading this and recognizing yourself. Maybe you're tired of relationships that feel like settling or just the same thing over and over. Maybe you're ready to stop accepting crumbs and start calling in a feast.

If so, there are two beautiful ways to begin:

Start with our free workbook: "Find Love After 50: A Guided Workbook to Attract Your Ideal Relationship." It will help you get crystal clear on what real love looks like for you — not what magazines say you should want, but what would make your heart absolutely sing. This clarity becomes the foundation for everything that follows. (click here)

Explore coaching with us: Whether one-on-one or in one of our group programs, this is where the real magic happens. This is where we help you identify and transform the patterns that have been running your love life. Where you will learn to radiate a new energy, one that calls in your person. Where you discover that the love you've been longing for isn't just possible — it's inevitable when you correctly align with it. (click here)

Your Love Story is Waiting

Here's what we know to be true: somewhere in the world, right now, there's someone who is perfect for the authentic, evolved version of yourself you're capable of becoming. They're not looking for someone without a past or someone who fits a certain mold. They're looking for someone who knows their worth, who approaches love from abundance rather than scarcity, and who is ready to create something beautiful together.

The path to this kind of love doesn't require you to become someone else. It requires you to become more deeply, authentically yourself — the version of you that expects to be treasured, that believes in the possibility of extraordinary connection, and that refuses to settle for anything less than soul-deep love.

Your person is out there, and they're on their own journey of discovering someone exactly like you. The question is: are you ready to step into the version of yourself who calls them in?

If so, your most beautiful love story is now ready to be written. Let's begin.

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Kim and Roger are Manifestationship® coaches who help adult singles create authentic, fulfilling relationships through conscious awareness and intentional inner transformation. Through their unique approach as both a man and woman team, they guide clients in becoming magnetic to the love they truly deserve.